Outside My Comfort Zone #27

February 26, 2014, 4:00 am

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Back on track! This challenge is 'Red Carpet Glamour' and was chosen by Becky (of Does My Blog Make Me Look Fat) who wrote: 'As it is award season I would love to see some Red Carpet Glamour. Be inspired by some of the amazing outfits that have been down the red carpet and try and incorporate some of the key trends that seem to be appearing (colour blocking, bold colours, black and white) or even try and emulate your favourite star's red carpet look.'

Image © Magic Moments via Daily Mail (Gemma Collins) | Okay, this is definately outside my comfort zone. I don't watch the awards and pay little attention to celebrities. I did, however, attend the British Plus Size Awards late last year (after winning two tickets in a raffle at Big Girls Paradise), so that's a good starting point.

In attendance was Gemma Collins, awarded Best Designer, whom I was previously 'aware' of and following on Twitter but didn't actually have that much of an idea what she looked like; I must say, she is stunning. Gemma wore the Monte Carlo dress from her own collection (£60.00, currently available in sizes 20-24 in black or 16-24 in wine), the perfect LBD (little black dress). I don't think I've ever seen a plain black dress look so fantastic and it's something I'd definately wear myself, with a statement jewellery piece or clutch...alas, not with the £60.00 price tag (sorry, Gemma).

Image © Betty Pamper (Lisa Riley) | Also in attendance was Lisa Riley, awarded Best Achievement, who is, quite frankly, bloody brilliant. Lisa wore the Anna Scholz Double Silk Cowl Maxi Dress in Pink Deco Flower (this dress was from the SS13 collection and is sadly no longer available); she is quite the Anna Scholz fan, apparently! Some people that I spoke to weren't keen on the dress but I loved it. Granted, I can't afford the warranted price tag of double silk, but there are many bargains to be had in the Anna Schols sale (and if I was looking for red carpet glamour, that's definately the first place that I would look).

Looking for more red carpet inspiration? Don't forget to check out the rest of the OMCZ crew (or search #OMCZ on Twitter):

Natalie - http://awheelbarrowfullofstyle.blogspot.co.uk
Nikki - http://www.nattynikki.com
Stephanie - http://www.seeingspots.co.uk
Becky - http://www.doesmyblogmakemelookfat.com
Mary - http://www.marysbigcloset.blogspot.pt
Hollie - http://www.prettybigbutterflies.com
Erin - http://erinslittlebigcorner.blogspot.co.uk
Debz - http://www.wannabeprincess.co.uk
Becca - http://thegirlwiththeplait.blogspot.co.uk
Rebs - http://sullen-hearts.blogspot.co.uk
Katt - http://acurvycupcake.blogspot.co.uk
Leah - http://www.justmeleah.blogspot.co.uk
Mookie - http://muki7x7.blogspot.co.uk
Danielle - http://www.daniellerharris.com
Beverley - http://www.thecurvyword.com
Sam - http://fattyboomtatty.blogspot.co.uk
Gillian - http://www.weegillie.com
Sarah - http://plussizeproud.wordpress.com

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What Being a Fat Woman is Really Like...

February 26, 2014, 11:04 am

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Inspired by the recent Cosmopolitan article of the same title, Claire (of Monkey See Monkey Do Monkey Wear) asked on Twitter if anyone would be interested in doing a blog post with their take on the questions posed. I hadn't yet read the article, though I'd seen it and put it on my 'to do list'; I decided not to read the article in full before giving my answers so that I could be sure that I wasn't subliminally repeating what I had read.

How do you feel when other women around you complain about feeling/being fat?

9 times out of 10 I feel extremely annoyed. The sorts of comments this brings to mind tend to come from people half my size, although to be honest I don't often experience this these days (as in I rarely experience people commenting to me about feeling/being fat). To some extent it depends on the context and I can completely understand that if you've put on a few stone you might want to lose it, but to be frank I don't want to hear about it.

Having said all of that, (to me) there is a huge difference between 'complaining' about feeling/being fat and having one of those days where your body confidence and self esteem are low; I wouldn't want anyone who is feeling that they're having difficulties in that respect to feel that they can't talk to me about it.

How has your body image changed since high school? College?

My body image, confidence and self esteem has grown significantly since school. I was bullied throughout Primary and Secondary education; not always because of my weight, but mostly. There were very few of my peers who were around my size, or at least that was my perception; I was a size 16/18 around the time of leaving school, but I viewed myself as being a lot bigger. I felt ugly and abnormal because of my weight, as well as unfeminine and unattractive for lacking a 'womanly' shape. In addition to my weight I had acne, not to a significant extent but enough for it to play havoc with my body image. If you're familiar with me/my blog you'll know that my body confidence and self esteem have improved significantly over the years, but I'd say that my body image is still a work in progress.

Have you tried dieting? What happened?

If you're a regular reader of my blog, you may recall my post 'Absence Makes...' from October last year regarding my health and weight loss. I've been on either Weight Watchers or Slimming World at various points with various successes, although they've never really stuck. Some years ago I lost 1.5 stone and more recently (the latter part of last year) I lost over 2 stone (following Slimming World). I unfortunately found the return to university life difficult from a healthy eating perspective and gave up completely over the Christmas break, resulting in putting back on 1 stone or there abouts. Oh, yes, healthy eating - that's what I'm about now. No diets. No 'you can't have this or that', but tasty treats in moderation and plenty of nutritious fruit and vegetables. I say now but it's very, very hard to get back into having any kind of discipline over what you put in your mouth. But, it's for my own good; for my health, not for my size or my weight.

Do you think in your case your weight is partly or entirely genetic?

My Dad is fat, my Paternal Grandfather is fat, my Mum was fat and my Paternal Grandmother was fat. They've all been different sizes but predominantly fat. I believe that my body shape and size is genetic therefore my weight is at least partly genetic, however, the fact that I am fat is not (entirely) genetic. I'm sure nobody needs a Science lesson as to what fat is and how it forms, but a lot of it has to do with what I eat and how much I exercise.

Do you consider yourself healthy? Have there been instances where people assumed you were unhealthy?

I'm not completely unhealthy, but I could be healthier. People however, in general, assume that I am completely unhealthy because I am fat. You might catch me in a McDonalds once every 4 months but that single trip petrifies me because of the judgement imposed on me by society; many people seeing me eat that solitary meal will presume that is what I eat all the time. Even professionals assume I am unhealthy and that any new ailment is related to my weight; because of this (at least in part) I have been suffering with an undiagnosed and untreated sleep condition for nearly 10 years.

My difficulties and experiences are often belittled as being caused or effected by my weight. I'm also damned if I do and damned if I don't; going to the gym or exercise classes, or even exercising in a public space, could be a potential source of ridicule and have been in the past (I gave up doing PE at school for this very reason).

Are your parents both supportive of you at the weight you're at? Have they always been?

My Dad is as supportive as he could possibly be as an older male trying to relate to his 26 year old daughter; he knows that I do my best to be healthy but that it's not always my main priority in life. He supports me when I am trying to maintain a healthy lifestyle but doesn't ridicule me when I am not, although he may make the odd comment on my 'grazing' habits on the odd occasion (I eat a lot) they are not meant to harm me. As far as I can recall my parents have never been negative towards my weight, I mean they would be a bit hypocritical if they were! As with most children I was taught and somewhat disciplined to eat vegetables that I disliked and generally had a balanced diet.

How do you think retailers can improve clothes for plus-size people?

Stop segregating and hiding us. There is no shame in offering plus-size clothing, it does not need to be on the highest floor and in the furthest corner, that is on the rare occasion that it actually is available on the high street. Keep on trend but also offer us basics; why is it so hard to find a plain t-shirt that is the right length, fit and fabric for a plus-size woman?!

Do you think plus-size women are judged differently than plus-sized men are? How?

Look at the wording of this question and the original article and there is your answer. The magazine article chose to interview two women, not two men, or even a woman and a man. In addition, the question says 'how' which to me presumes the answer is yes. In my view, plus-size men are ignored and somewhat marginalised due to the acceptance of masculine fatness in society. It is presumed that plus-size men do not experience issues and that their opinion is irrelevant, but you would only need to look at the plus-size fashion options for men to see that there is very much a need for a discourse around what it is to be fat and male. Or at least that is my view, as a plus-size woman...

Do you think there's an assumption made/stereotype that exists about plus-size people? How would you respond to it?

Lazy. Unhealthy. A burden on the NHS. A plague on society. Unattractive. Undesirable. Unwanted. A fetish. Desperate. I could probably think of a lot more if I sat down and really thought about it. I respond and I don't; it depends what it is, when it is, who it is, the context, how I am feeling at the time and probably 101 other things. For example, it is easier for me to challenge a random person that I don't know, than it is to challenge a friend, or to challenge a professional. However, sometimes I feel that 'random people' are not worth the time or the effort. Sometimes I am of the opinion that it isn't my responsibility to educate the world. Sometimes I really cannot be bothered. When you've had a lifetime of labels and self-fulfilling prophecies, it isn't easy to be that strong, educated, empowering person that you want to be.

Do you think there’s ever a right way or time to express concern about someone’s weight?

No. Someone else's health and/or body is not your concern unless that person asks for it. I'm also pretty sure that the majority of people are aware of their weight and how 'concerning' it may or may not be, but I'm also pretty sure that whether they are or aren't aware expressing your 'concern' isn't going to help. My body, my rules.

What are the worst things people have said to you about your body?

I honestly couldn't specifically tell you anything that people have said, in my view the negativity is more to do with how people have made me feel. Equally, the majority of negativity that I now experience is indirect and is mostly related to the perceptions of fat people by society and my own perceptions of my body in conjunction with previous patterns of behaviour.

How did you respond?

See assumptions & stereotypes, the answer is pretty much the same.

What have people said (or do you wish they’d say) that would compliment your body or appearance?

Being complimented on my body or appearance is a strange concept to me and something that I have only recently started to accept; I am not very good at receiving compliments relating to anything to be honest. I'm not sure what people have said or what I'd wish them to say, I'd have to think a while on that, but I can tell you what not to say...for the love of all things please do NOT say that I'm curvy. I do not take it as a compliment because I am not/do not view myself to be curvy and I feel that saying it is purely trying to make my fatness fit in to yet another socially accepted norm/standard.

Do you find yourself hanging out with women who are closer to your size?

Yes, but predominantly through fat activism and blogging. I socialise with many fellow plus size bloggers, fat activists and fat people in general; particularly as I attend two fat-friendly club nights (Club Indulge and Big Girls Paradise) and run a monthly meet-up (fatchat). However, I do not choose my friends on the basis of their size and I will not necessarily be friends or get on with every fat person that I meet (in case that was not blatantly obvious), but I can certainly say that there are certain aspects of being fat that it is positive to share with other fat people.

How has your weight affected your sex life, if at all?

Before I moved to London and started meeting new people and pushing myself out of my comfort zone, my dating and sex life was somewhat limited. Actually, my dating life was non-existent and my sex life sporadic. This was mostly down to a lack of confidence and issues with my body image; looking back it makes sense, as how could I expect anyone to find me attractive with such a negative outlook and perception of myself.

I wouldn't say my sex or dating life was perfect now or as active as I'd like it to be, but it's getting there. I feel more confident and beautiful than I have ever done so before and I am also starting to think about and own my sexuality, femininity and other such traits. Really it's not about my weight our about me being fat, but the effect that has had on my mentality.

When you've been single, has your weight affected your dating life?

See above, I don't think there's much point in separating the two.

Do you feel weird if the guy you’re with only dates larger women?

Do you feel weird if the guy you're with only dates smaller women? I rest my case. (That means the answer is no, by the way. I don't feel weird or think it is weird at all).

Do you feel weird if he's only dated slimmer women before you?

See above. If someone finds me attractive, they find me attractive, end of.

The end! I'm not sure if I lost the will towards the end of this or if the questions were just straight forward for me. Anyway, I'd love to hear your thoughts and own perceptions! I'm really looking forward to reading the answers given by the other bloggers taking part, too. Here's the links so you can take a look as well:

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Love EVERY Body #3

February 28, 2014, 11:50 am

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Hi folks. The third assignment for Love EVERY Body focuses on our shoulders, arms and hands: 'This month's assignment is to talk about our shoulders, arms and hands. If you've ever had some kind of injury to an arm or hand which has prevented you from using it for a short time, you'll know for yourself that working arms and hands are a blessing, no matter what they look like. If you have the full use of both arms (and I'm not assuming you do) that's a bonus.'

I'm a little late in posting this, whoops! Anyway. I'll start by saying that I am blessed to have the full use of my shoulders, arms and hands; although I am occasionally bothered by RSI in my right shoulder, I can't complain really.

I don't really have any thoughts on my hands or shoulders, they're kind of just 'there'. Indifference I guess is the word I'm looking for. My arms on the other hand, well, two words...bingo wings. Yep, I know a lot of people have them, but I still hate mine. I would much rather my arms were fat and round than saggy; it's that horrible flappy lump of flesh that I can't stand. I have, however, made progress...I am now relatively comfortable with bare arms, most of the time. I don't feel that I need to cover them up or be ashamed of them, at least. So, whilst I certainly don't love my arms and don't think I could even say that I like them, they're...there.

Image © James McCauley for Marisota/SCPR (Big Fat Betty [Me!] Modelling the AVA Collection | You can find links to the other bloggers taking part at the bottom of Leah's post here or search #LoveEVERYBody on Twitter.

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Love EVERY Body #4

March 7, 2014, 2:27 pm

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Hi folks. The fourth assignment for Love EVERY Body focuses on our chest/breasts: 'Are you happy with your chest/boobs? Maybe you've had surgery (mastectomy/boob job.) Maybe you feel your boobs are too big or too small, or less than perky from breast feeding, but they're perfect as they are.'

Again I'm a bit late in posting, sorry. I don't mind my breasts; I don't love them, but they're alright. I wish they were a little bigger or fuller, but I'm also annoyed for being made to feel that my breasts are inadequate; I measure as a 42A (allegedly) and wear a 42B. Growing up, I hated my breasts. They filled out quite late and were a peculiar pointy triangular shape, like an unfashionable version of a bullet bra. My earliest memory of bullying is when I was at Primary School and a male 'friend' picked on me because I wasn't wearing a bra. I was then further humiliated by the Shop Assistant in Contessa telling my Mother that I didn't need one. I've always had fairly large and quite dark areola/nipples, which were clearly becoming more obvious through my standard school uniform (white polo shirt). Thank you puberty.

Anyway, I got my first bra and that was that...until I grew up and got bigger (fatter), that is. It is very hard to find my bra size on the high street and was probably even harder back then (I had enough problems with clothes that I don't remember underwear specifically); off the top of my head the only places I know that I can definitely find my size are BHS, Bon Marche and occasionally M&S. There is of course also Evans but I have never had much luck with their sizing; I can't wear padded bras as the cups are too big. Add to that not wanting to wear something fashioned for Grandmothers and ideally wanting matching bottoms (you can have your size 42B bra but not your size 22 matching bottoms, sorry), it's verging on impossible. Jump forward X amount of years and my underwear prayers are answered by Fashion World and Simply Be, which not only stock my size in bras but also matching bottoms and *gasp* bodyshapers. Eureka!

However, it's not all hunky dory. Stereotypes dictate that larger women have larger breasts and I am often sad that I cannot shop with some of the lingerie brands loved by other plus size bloggers, such as Curvy Kate, as they don't do my size. It's not just stereotypes, either; society has developed some peculiar viewpoint often described as 'good fat' vs. 'bad fat', whereby curvy and/or hourglass shapes are more widely accepted and portrayed as an acceptable norm of the larger/plus size figure. Thinking of these points, it's not really surprising that I sometimes feel that my smaller breasts (and large back) make me inadequate and/or abnormal (as opposed to feminine, beautiful, sexy, or 'normal' in any sort of way).

Image © Saj Khan 2012 (Model: Big Fat Betty [Me]).

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Boohoo Review

March 10, 2014, 1:54 pm

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Images © Big Fat Betty | I placed an order for a few items from the new plus size range at Boohoo a couple of weeks ago. Firstly, the delivery was really quick; I placed the order late Tuesday evening, opted for standard delivery (UK Saver, £3.99) and the items arrived on Friday. If you're really dying to get your hands on something, next day delivery is only £4.99, which is quite reasonable (and only £1 more).

I ordered (L-R) the Kimbillie Floral Longsleeve Playsuit (£22.00), Evie Mesh Hem Panel Midi Dress (Black or Cream, £18.00) and Kara Floral Jeggings (£16.00). I opted for my usual size (22) and I am pleased to say that everything is a good fit, although I could've possibly sized down in the midi dress.

Words cannot describe how much I adore this playsuit! I didn't think it suit me, but I love it. It's very comfortable and I think you could dress it up or down, or even as a beachwear cover-up.

I am not so sure about the midi dress. I know a lot of people rock this look and I really wanted to try it, but I think it just looks like a tent on me. Perhaps with a wide belt it'd work.

I love the print on the 'jeggings' but, well, I have to point out that they're not jeggings (in my opinion). They're made from a stretch jersey fabric and are not jean-like at all. They are like very thick leggings. Anyway, asides from that, they're fab.

Overall, I'm really impressed. For a new range there is a good variety of fashionable, reasonably priced items. At present the range only goes up to a 24, which I realise may be a disappointment to some and I can only hope that this changes in the future. However, I do have one small criticism, which is that some of the range is available from Pink Clove at lower prices; I'm quite lucky that this didn't apply to any of the items that I purchased, although I did unfortunately miss out on the student discount as I didn't think about it at the time. Has anyone else tried out the new range? What are your thoughts?

This is not a collaborative post and the items featured were purchased.

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Marisota Pop-Up Competition

March 12, 2014, 1:27 pm

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Marisota are sewing up a fashion industry treat once again and bringing Shapeology to the high street with their Pop-Up Shop Tour, where customers will be able to browse a selection of clothing and accessories. In addition, orders placed at the Pop-Up Shops will be eligible for an exclusive 20% discount and free delivery*!

Marisota's very own Shapeologists will be on hand to offer tips and advice about the range, as well as offering 'Shapeovers' and the opportunity to capture your new look in their social media savvy 'magic mirror'. Mark Heyes, TV Stylist and creator of the AVA Collection for Marisota (you might remember my blog post on the collection launch), will also be joining the tour.

The Tour is running from 13 March to 6 April and the Pop-Up Shop points are as follows: London (56 Wells Street, W1T 3PT) 13-16 March, Glasgow (Buchanan Galleries, 220 Buchanan Street, G1 2FF) 20-23 March, Bristol (23 Penn Street, Cabot Circus, BS1 3AU) 25-30 March and Manchester (Arndale Center) 3-6 April.

I'm very excited, not only because I'm going to the launch tomorrow, but also as Marisota have asked if I would be interested in featuring a competition for you, my lovely readers, to win a VIP Marisota experience. You could be one of 5 lucky winners, each of whom will receive a Shapeover with Marisota's team of Shapeology experts (led by TV Stylist Mark Heyes) as well as entry into a prize draw to win £500 worth of vouchers to spend with Marisota online (if you win check out my post on the launch [coming soon] for some ideas!).

In order to be in with a chance of winning, you will need to be available to attend the Pop-Up Shop in London (56 Wells Street, W1T 3PT) on 14, 15 or 16 March for a two hour styling session (10am-12pm, 12pm-2pm, 2pm-4pm or 4pm-6pm). To enter, e-mail marisotaukpopupshop@gmail.comwith my blog title (Big Fat Betty) and a contact telephone number.

Good luck and keep an eye out for my post on the launch [coming soon]!

*when you spend £30 or more on fashion, footwear and lingerie.

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Marisota Pop-Up Shop Launch

March 22, 2014, 11:27 am

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I was very excited to be invited to the launch of Marisota's Pop-Up Shop tour (read more here) in London on Thursday last week (13 March). It was held in a spacious venue near Oxford Street and reminded me of a modern boutique, with crisp white decor and colourful products. I got my compact camera out straight away and started photographing the displays; just to forewarn you, this post is going to have a lot of photos!

I was introduced to one of the Shapeologists, the lovely Lucy, who talked me through the Shapeology technology and other fit and fabric techniques as we picked out items for me to try on. What I enjoyed most about this is that Lucy was able to talk to me about many of the products from her own experiences and make recommendations on that basis. We picked out so many things to try and could've chosen much more; in the end I tried on 4 outfits.

The first piece I tried on, which I unfortunately don't have a photo of, is the Coleen Nolan Illusion Panel Maxi Dress (£59.00). This dress has a lovely, bright print and is very flattering. For a night out, I'd style it with the Neon Orange Box Clutch Bag (£25.00), Mood Statement Stone Colour Necklace (£20.00) and sandals.

Image (Below) © Marisota Magic Mirror |Next up was the Tribal Print Jacquard Trousers (£39.00) and Joanna Hope Print Kaftan (£45.00). These trousers are really comfortable and have hidden elastic in the waistband, so I was able to wear a size 22 instead of my usual size (24). The kaftan has a separate jersey cami to wear underneath, or you could wear it without as a coverup/beachwear. Unfortunately you can't see them in the photo but I am also wearing the Catwalk Sparkle Pumps in black (£28.00, sizes 4-9 and E or EEE width, also available in silver).

Image (Below) © Marisota Magic Mirror |I then tried on the WOW Slim Leg Jeans in Coral (£45.00), Oriental Print Woven Vest (£18.00) and Joanna Hope Textured Jersey Jacket (£55.00). These jeans are very aptly named as there are an amazing fit! They have a hidden bit of elastic at the back of the waistline and the fabric itself has a bit of stretch to it; Lucy suggested that I try these as I discussed my problems with jeans gaping above and below the bum, I'm glad that I did and would highly recommend them (I went for my usual size 24). The jacket and vest I both tried in a 22 although if you're big on the bum/hips like me I'd suggest sizing up in the top (I'd go for a 24), as due to the fit it was a bit tight on my stomach; with this style I don't think it'd matter if it was a bit of a loose fit elsewhere. The jacket is lightweight and great for office, casual or evening wear. I don't normally wear white or pale colours at all but I absolutely adore this crisp, summery look!

Image (Below) © Marisota Magic Mirror |Last but not least, my favourite outfit, the Print Kaftan Maxi Dress (£45.00) and Sole Diva Plain Flatforms in Purple (£20.00, sizes 4-8 and E or EEE width). This dress is beautiful, floaty and lightweight, but not opaque so it can be worn on it's own; if you're going on holiday this would be a great piece to bring with you and it'd take up very little room in your suitcase. The flatforms are a lovely vibrant colour and very comfortable, as someone who dislikes like the pain and discomfort of heels I am very keen on these.

Whilst attending the launch I was also filmed chatting to Karen, one of the Shapeologists, about my shapeover and experiences of shopping as a plus size woman. I've been informed that the footage may be used at the other pop-up shops, so you may see my face on screen! How exciting (well, for me haha)!

All of the items shown in this post and more are available from Marisota in sizes 12-32. I'd like to thank Marisota for inviting me to the launch and also for gifting me the fabulous Beaded Ethnic Print Shopper (£40.00) and scarf, as well as an outfit of my choice up to the value of £100 (to be continued...!).

Disclaimer: This is not a collaborative post and all views are my own.

All images © Big Fat Betty unless otherwise stated.

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JABC (March)

March 25, 2014, 7:43 am

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Hi folks. March's theme is 'I bet you didn't know...'. There are probably quite a lot of things that most of you don't know about me, but they're not very interesting...I'm not sure this is either but I'll go with it anyway! I'm in my 3rd and final year of University, studying BSc Social Policy & Youth Studies. I graduate in July, although teaching finishes on 1 May and my last assignment deadline is the end of May.

I'm writing my dissertation on the sexualization of young women and I hope to either work in research, policy or the advocacy and inclusion of young people. My 'dream job' so to speak would be work relating to the body image and self-esteem and/or sexualization/sexual exploitation of young women, as these are my areas of particular interest.

Anyway, I won't bore you with any more information, but if it's something you're interested in feel free to ask questions!

Don't forget to check out the rest of the JABC crew (or search #JABC on Twitter):

Steph – http://www.seeingspots.co.uk

Toni – http://theonlywayist.com
Kim – http://www.callmekim.net
Gina – http://fatfitfine.blogspot.co.uk
Nikki – http://www.nattynikki.blogspot.co.uk
Becky – http://www.doesmyblogmakemelookfat.com

Kaye – http://polishedcurves.com
Naomi – http://www.diamondsnpearls.co.uk
Victoria – http://www.thecurvedopinion.com
Em – http://terribletumbles.blogspot.co.uk
Beka - http://thegirlwiththeplait.blogspot.co.uk
Gemma – http://www.pinkgemmaplus.blogspot.co.uk
Alex - http://www.wearnouvellevague.com

Mookie – http://www.muki7x7.blogspot.co.uk

Michaela – http://www.cardifforniagurl.blogspot.co.uk

Katt – http://www.acurvycupcake.blogspot.co.uk
Toni - http://www.theleftofperfect.blogspot.co.uk
Abi - http://aisforabi.blogspot.co.uk

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Outside My Comfort Zone #29

March 26, 2014, 11:00 am

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I'm late again, but only by a day this time! This challenge is 'Pastels' and was chosen by Hollie (of Pretty Big Butterflies) who wrote: 'Pastels are here for Spring & Summer but I'd love some inspiration from you lovely ladies. I want to see you florish in fondant colours. Pinks, mints, sky blues...the list goes on. I don't want to hide away this Summer so this will be good practice!'

I have to admit that pastels have never really been my bag, and they still aren't, although recently I've been experimenting with lighter shades and I must admit I absolutely love this outfit that I've put together from Simply Be (especially the jacket!).

#1 Simply Be PU Pink Biker Jacket, £70.00 (sizes 12-32)
#2 Coloured Slim Leg Jeans in Coral, £30.00-£33.00 (sizes 12-32, available in 28", 30" and 32" leg length)
#3 Mood Statement Flower Necklace, £25.00
#4 Claire Richards Peep Toe Shoe in Nude Pink, £45.00 (sizes 4-9, E or EEE width, also available in black)

NB: Prices as displayed online on 27 March 2014

I think you could either wear a plain white top under the jacket, or a black one with black shoes for an 'edgier' look.

PS: You can get 10% off and free delivery with the code WXHK5 (from Voucher Codes, expires 18 June 2014)!

Don't forget to check out the rest of the OMCZ crew (or search #OMCZ on Twitter):

Natalie - http://awheelbarrowfullofstyle.blogspot.co.uk
Nikki - http://www.nattynikki.com
Stephanie - http://www.seeingspots.co.uk
Becky - http://www.doesmyblogmakemelookfat.com
Mary - http://www.marysbigcloset.blogspot.pt
Hollie - http://www.prettybigbutterflies.com
Erin - http://erinslittlebigcorner.blogspot.co.uk
Debz - http://www.wannabeprincess.co.uk
Becca - http://thegirlwiththeplait.blogspot.co.uk
Rebs - http://sullen-hearts.blogspot.co.uk
Katt - http://acurvycupcake.blogspot.co.uk
Leah - http://www.justmeleah.blogspot.co.uk
Mookie - http://muki7x7.blogspot.co.uk
Danielle - http://www.daniellerharris.com
Beverley - http://www.thecurvyword.com
Sam - http://fattyboomtatty.blogspot.co.uk
Gillian - http://www.weegillie.com
Sarah - http://plussizeproud.wordpress.com

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Boohoo Plus Launch

March 27, 2014, 1:07 pm

≫ Next: Fatty Got a Jobby, or Not

≪ Previous: Outside My Comfort Zone #29

Images © Big Fat Betty | Following on from my review of some items from new Boohoo Plus range, I was thrilled to be invited to the launch on Thursday 13 March (yes two events in one day, lucky me)! It was held at the The Sanderson Hotel in London (near Oxford Street) where we were treated to a lovely afternoon tea, which was beautiful both in taste and appearance. It was lovely to catch up with some of the other plus size bloggers in attendance and the ladies from Boohoo were equally lovely; there were lots of laughs and conversation was flowing.

Of course the main focus of the afternoon was the launch of the Boohoo Plus range. There were plenty of exciting pieces including on trend pastels, floral prints, neons and denim. It was exciting to hear that, following its success, extending the size range is on the cards (the range is currently available in sizes 16-24).

I'd like to thank Boohoo for the invitation as well as the lovely afternoon tea and the gift of not one but two items from the range; I chose the floral jacket (as seen here, it's not available online yet but I believe the stock has just come in so hopefully it will be soon!) and the Ruby Lace Skater Dress in black.

I'm looking forward to seeing what else Boohoo Plus has in store for us!

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Fatty Got a Jobby, or Not

April 4, 2014, 3:04 am

≫ Next: Love EVERY Body #5

≪ Previous: Boohoo Plus Launch

Image © Getty Images | Recently I asked on Twitter if anyone had any ideas of fat politics/issues I could write about on the blog. Leah (of 30 Something Curvy Me) sent me a Tweet, saying: "I heard someone genuinely say that they lost weight so they could be taken seriously as a Director! She went through three lots of surgery to get to a happy size. She is successful, but is that right?" Interesting topic, I thought, but I'd need some material to reference, so I started off with a quick Google search ('lose weight to get a job 2014')...

Queue jaw drop. The first result was 'Top diets review for 2014' on the NHS Choices website. Granted the list gives semi-useful pros and cons from the British Dietic Association (BDA), but what on earth is the NHS doing promoting diet/weight loss plans?!

I already know that the NHS practically endorses some plans as, for example, you can get a certain number of weeks and the membership fee for Slimming World via your GP...don't get me wrong, I'm not 'anti' (all of) these things and if it works for you then go for it (personally, Slimming World works for me; see my previous post), but I would expect the NHS to be promoting healthy eating/a healthy lifestyle, not (what are, in my opinion, mostly fad) diets.

Next on my reading list is an article that's making me think that next time someone makes a comment about my weight, I'm going to tell them it's because of my job and see what they say; the article I'm referring to is on the US version of Women's Health magazine's website and is entitled 'The Jobs That Make You Most Likely to be Overweight'. Because, of course, the worst possible thing you could be is overweight; ignoring the fact that you actually have a job in the current economic climate, when many people don't. What's worse is that the article claims that this information comes from a new study in Preventing Chronic Disease...err, pardon?! I am fat, obese, overweight, whatever you want to call it, but I do not have a disease. Obesity is not a disease. Weight is not 'a disorder or structure of function' (that is the Oxford Dictionary definition of disease). Oh wait, don't worry, exercise and diet play a part, too...no ****, Sherlock.

Anyway, I digress. I could go through a million links and pull them to pieces. At the end of the day it's not going to change the fact that society places a great deal of importance on aesthetics. I don't think that someone should have to change their appearance (with the exception of looking 'smart', obviously) to get a job, progress in their career or, well, basically for any other reason than that they want to. But, if I'm being honest, I'm not convinced that people's perceptions will change any time soon. Personally, on the job front, I think being fat is the least of my concerns; being young, female and having pink hair are more likely to go against me than the size of my backside (unless I can't fit in the chair).

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Love EVERY Body #5

April 6, 2014, 5:00 am

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≪ Previous: Fatty Got a Jobby, or Not

Hi folks. The fourth assignment for Love EVERY Body focuses on our stomach/waist: 'How do you feel about your stomach/tummy? Maybe it bears the marks of carrying a child. Maybe it looks different than it did years ago. Maybe an operation scar has changed the way you feel about it.'

I have a love/hate relationship with my stomach. I kind of like the squishy softness of it, but then I sometimes dislike the way it looks in some clothes and wish it was more 'streamlined'. Somewhere among the flab I have a waist, and if you pull it all to the front (yes I actually do this sometimes) I'm actually quite curvy/hourglass-like. Sometimes I wish I was curvier/more defined, so that I can be the 'good'/acceptable fat that society wants me to be, but then I get annoyed with myself for thinking such things.

I've got a lot of stretch marks, but either they're not as visible as they used to be or I don't really notice them anymore. They don't really bother me. I've probably got a few little scars, too; I hit myself with an iron once (I don't even know how). I also have a little bit of hair that goes up to my belly button, which used to bother me but not so much now. I don't like my belly button being touched because it makes me feel like I need a wee!

I remember back when I finished school, in the Summer I wore a bikini. I was smaller than I am now, probably around a size 16-18, and was just starting to develop body confidence. Although I did look different back then, I've always really viewed myself as being the size that I am now. It's a difficult thing to explain. Would I wear a bikini now? A high waisted one probably, yeah. That is if I ever went on holiday! Or even to the beach. I don't have a passport and living in London now I rarely see the seaside; not enough to warrant buying a 'fatkini', anyway.

Most of my fat is situated around my stomach and the sides. I'm not a fan of the whole fruit shape thing, but it's the easiest thing to relate to and I still find myself using it; I think if it wasn't for my massive backside I would be an apple, although my shoulders aren't narrow. I don't have much else to say on the subject really...

I kinda like my stomach most of the time these days, maybe I even love it a little.

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Review: New Look Maxi Dress

April 27, 2014, 11:15 am

≫ Next: Guest Post: Too Fat to Run?

≪ Previous: Love EVERY Body #5

Image (left) © Big Fat Betty | Hi folks. I hope you are all enjoying the improving weather! Maxi dresses are a great choice for sunny days and when New Look contacted me about collaborating, I jumped at the opportunity to review their Inspire Red Floral Print Cut Out Shoulder Maxi Dress, which they kindly gifted to me. The dress retails for £22.99, which is a reasonable price, and it comes in sizes 18-28.

I was first drawn to the dress by the pretty floral print and cut out shoulders, having purchased items with this styling detail in the past and loved it. It also reminded me of many of the dresses that I've bought previously from New Look, which are 100% polyester and have an elasticated waist; I find this fabric to be lightweight and not needing ironing (I don't really iron anything anyway but, well, y'know) and the elasticated waist is great for both comfort and fit.

I opted for a size 22, which has been my usual dress size in New Look for a while although recently I have found that I've been able to size down to a 20. I decided to stick with a 22 on this occasion to ensure a comfortable and 'floaty' fit. The dress was a good fit and I'm glad that I got a 22, as I think a 20 would've been too small. Please do excuse my shoes (which are the Black Embroidered Floral Mesh Ballet Pumps, £15.99, sizes 3-8, also available in white and coral) and tights, I don't own any sandals (yet) and was photographing other things at the same time.

Anyway, I digress. The only downside to this dress is that it is far too long and drags on the floor; at 5'7" I wouldn't expect anything to be too long on me and I'd have to get this dress taken up to be able to wear it out. However, I suppose it is better for it to be too long than too short!

Images (below) © New Look | I've also compiled a complete look around this dress with other items from New Look...

#1 Inspire Red Floral Print Cut Out Shoulder Maxi Dress, £22.99 (sizes 18-28)
#2 Inspire Light Blue Faded Denim Jacket, £22.99 (sizes 18-26)
#3 Wide Fit Cream Laser Cut Two Part Sandals, £19.99 (sizes 4-9, also available in tan)

NB: Prices as displayed online on 27 April 2014

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Guest Post: Too Fat to Run?

May 2, 2014, 11:45 am

≫ Next: Love EVERY Body #6

≪ Previous: Review: New Look Maxi Dress

Image © The Fat Girls Guide to Running | Too Fat to Run? Sounds a bit harsh really doesn’t it? But that is what a doctor told me a few weeks ago when I went in complaining of a trapped nerve in my back, caused by lifting my daughter. He took one look at me and basically said I was not fit enough to run the marathon I was due to run that month. He didn’t care that I had lost close to 5 stone that year, and it didn’t matter that for months I had been running 3-4 times a week, or that I had completed a 20 mile training run just 2 weeks prior, he basically just saw the size of me and assumed that I was too fat to run.To add insult to injury he suggested that I was only doing the marathon to raise money for a charity, because of course a fat person would never run that far simply because they just enjoyed running and challenging themselves.Well screw you doctor, and screw everyone else who has ever seen me and made assumptions about what I can or can’t do with my fat body.

Its not just doctors that are prejudice; my running journey began because a snotty nosed kid poked fun at me, calling me fatty when I was running, and it was that incident that led to me becoming a fat girl that runs. That was over 10 years ago, and I have competed in well over 100 races since, everything from 5k up to marathon distance, so I reckon that qualifies me as a runner somehow, and having been everything from a dress size 14 up to a 22, and possibly more when I was pregnant in 2012, I am living proof that there is no such thing as being ‘Too Fat to Run’.

I guess that leaves one big question though, “if you are such a great runner, why are you still fat?” It’s a reasonable question to ask, the answer however is not so straight forward. Running isn’t THE best weight loss exercise, especially not distance running, as it makes you so hungry and it makes your body store fat in some cases. I don’t always follow the most consistent of diets either, I mean I know what and how much to eat, but sometimes I choose not to play ball which means I don’t lose weight or put it back on again in a typical yo-yo pattern. But I also had a baby 17 months ago, and during pregnancy I put on all of the weight I had lost and more, bringing me back to square one; not just in terms of my weight, my fitness was back to zero too.

The point is despite being a size 16/18 and 30lbs or so overweight I don’t actually run for weight loss any more anyway. I run because I love to run. Even though it’s a tough sport, and its not nice being ridiculed and pointed at in the street, running enables me to push my body using it in the way it was designed to be used. My persistent running through the busy streets near where I live is a metaphorical middle finger aimed towards anyone who has ever doubted the capabilities of someone carrying extra weight.

So what about you? Can you run? Do you run? I bet you have a ton of reasons or dare I say excuses why running is not for you. Bad knees, asthma or the classic “my boobs would knock someone out”. Well I don’t buy it. If done right running can be a great form of exercise for plus size women, whether it’s for weight loss or simply just to improve health and wellbeing.

So why not give it a go? Scared? Or don’t know where to start? Well, I write a running blog for plus size women; The Fat Girls Guide to Running, which is full of useful information on how to get started. I also deliver unique 1 day running retreats where only fat girls are allowed. The first ones are in East London but they could be coming to an area near you soon. Why not join my Facebook community for plus size runners and see just how many other fat women are out there running too.

Written by Julie (of The Fat Girls Guide to Running)

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Love EVERY Body #6

May 4, 2014, 10:37 am

≫ Next: Outside My Comfort Zone #31

≪ Previous: Guest Post: Too Fat to Run?

Hi folks. The sixth assignment for Love EVERY Body focuses on our stomach/waist: 'Bum. How do you feel about your butt? Is it muscly or squidgy? Do you have a freckled tush or maybe a tattooed one? How do you feel about your bottom. Do you have junk in the trunk or a flat 'un?'

I have (and always have had) a big bum, they run in my Mother's side of the family (along with small breasts). It's not fashionably big though, I mean it sticks out a bit but it has more 'length' than err...alright, I'm not going down that road! I kinda like it. It's squishy and seems to be popular with the lads.

It can be a bit of a pain with clothes, though. Things in this department have improved drastically since I've learnt (somewhat) how to work with my shape, but I'm still usually a size bigger on bottom than on top and have problems with trousers gaping in places that they shouldn't most of the time. It's also a pain full stop; I've recently been experiencing a lot of discomfort from sitting down and the type of chair/length of time doesn't seem to matter. I don't know why this is. I have put on a little weight so it could be that, I guess.

I have a birth mark just above my bum somewhere. I don't really notice it myself, I couldn't even point it out to you, but I remember my Mum mentioning it and saying it looks like a strawberry.

As much as I don't mind my bum in it's own right, as part of my figure I still struggle to accept it; it's part of the loving your body journey I suppose. I'm bottom heavy but I'm not curvy, meaning my body shape isn't in the 'good fat' or 'popular' demographic. Combined with small breasts, I'm unbalanced. I'm working on being OK with that, but I do still struggle to stop myself from thinking 'if I had larger breasts I'd be curvier, ergo more attractive'.

Yep, I know, I need to kick myself up the backside and see sense...!

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Outside My Comfort Zone #31

May 7, 2014, 2:10 pm

≫ Next: Review: Specspost Sunglasses

≪ Previous: Love EVERY Body #6

I'm on time for once! This challenge is 'Sitting Down' and was chosen by Stephanie (of Seeing Spots) who wrote: 'As a fat woman i'm expected to stand up, breathe in and generally blend into the background. It's my birthday today and I fancy a sit down and I'd like to ask all my fellow plus size bloggers to sit down. Wear what every you like but post a photo of yourself sat down.'

So, here I am, sat down at work (where I spend most of the time sat down, though usually behind a desk). I absolutely detest having my photo taken sat down, I just lose all my confidence and feel like I look like a blob. I'm not sure I'll ever like the way I look sat down as much as standing up. This is a lot of the reason why I lack confidence in the bedroom department also, but hey that's another kettle of fish! I feel alright about this photo though, I mean I've seen worse. I've come a long way in the body acceptance/love department, but it's still an ongoing journey.

Image (Right) © Big Fat Betty | Don't forget to check out the rest of the OMCZ crew (or search #OMCZ on Twitter):

Natalie - http://awheelbarrowfullofstyle.blogspot.co.uk
Nikki - http://www.nattynikki.com
Stephanie - http://www.seeingspots.co.uk
Becky - http://www.doesmyblogmakemelookfat.com
Mary - http://www.marysbigcloset.blogspot.pt
Hollie - http://www.prettybigbutterflies.com
Erin - http://erinslittlebigcorner.blogspot.co.uk
Debz - http://www.wannabeprincess.co.uk
Becca - http://thegirlwiththeplait.blogspot.co.uk
Rebs - http://sullen-hearts.blogspot.co.uk
Katt - http://acurvycupcake.blogspot.co.uk
Leah - http://www.justmeleah.blogspot.co.uk
Mookie - http://muki7x7.blogspot.co.uk
Danielle - http://www.daniellerharris.com
Beverley - http://www.thecurvyword.com
Sam - http://fattyboomtatty.blogspot.co.uk
Gillian - http://www.weegillie.com
Sarah - http://plussizeproud.wordpress.com

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Review: Specspost Sunglasses

May 11, 2014, 10:38 am

≫ Next: Event: Westfield CollectPlus

≪ Previous: Outside My Comfort Zone #31

Hi folks. For those of you that don't know, I've recently been prescribed glasses for reading/VDU use; I've never had glasses before and don't usually bother with sunglasses either, so the whole 'spectacle' (see what I did there) is a bit of a novelty.

When the lovely folk at Specspost asked if I'd like to review some of their products, as I already purchased my glasses frames and prescription lenses from another retailer, I opted to try their sunglasses. I was able to choose three pairs to review and Specspost very kindly allowed me to keep all three as a gift (I was initially able to keep one pair as a gift, but as I didn't need prescription lenses they said that I could keep all three!).

The amount of frames that they have to choose from is quite phenomenal; you'd be hard placed not to find at least one you like! There prices are reasonable too and start from £26.00 including standard lenses. When I was browsing their website I was really impressed with the amount of information provided and it was really easy to use.

I chose to review the "Katie" Pink Sunglasses (currently on offer for £30.00 instead of £35.00), Black and Purple Vintage Chic Sunglasses (£27.00) and "Festival" Pink Geek Style Sunglasses (£23.00). Here they are on (in the order listed, l-r):

Each pair came well protected in its own case. I think my favourites are the "Festival" Pink Geek Style Glasses, what do you think? They all felt comfortable and weren't a squeeze to fit my slightly larger than average head, although I think the "Katie" Pink Sunglasses were marginally less comfortable (probably due to their size).

Honestly I can't fault them at all really, although if I were shopping for sunglasses I would probably spend less given that I don't need prescription lenses; but if you do, they're a definate bargain and I will certainly be checking out Specspost next time I'm in the market for glasses. Retro frames ahoy!

Now, I'm off to catch some rays in style...well, when the sun comes out :)

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Event: Westfield CollectPlus

May 27, 2014, 1:33 pm

≫ Next: Review: Boohoo Plus Range #2

≪ Previous: Review: Specspost Sunglasses

On Tuesday 13 May I was invited, along with some other bloggers, to check out the new CollectPlus Lounge at Westfield Shepherds Bush. As a plus size lass I frequently shop online which is a relatively pleasant experience, but trying things on (I still don't have a full length mirror) and arranging returns can sometimes be a bit of a nightmare. I've heard of CollectPlus before and know that you can return parcels to your local CollectPlus point (not that I've done it yet!); but the CollectPlus Lounge experience really does go that extra mile.

Image (Above) © Arched Eyebrow (Lauren at the Concierge Desk) | The idea is that you get your order from your chosen retailer (Asos, Very, New Look, etc; there's a full list here) and choose the CollectPlus Lounge as the delivery point. It doesn't stop there, though. One you collect your parcel from the concierge desk, there are changing rooms (complete with power sockets!) in which you can try your items on. There's also plenty of sofas and chairs if you have company and if you're driving you'll get an hour of free parking, too! If you decide to return any items the concierge desk will process it for you and give you a tracking number. No hassle, no fuss, sorted.

Image (Above) © From the Corners of the Curve (Me in my Asos Outfit)| So that we could experience the process first hand, Westfield very kindly ordered items on our behalf up to a certain value as a gift. I chose the ASOS Curve Sleeveless Skater Dress with Sweetheart Neck in Longer Length (£20.00, sizes 18-28, also available in pink) and the ASOS Curve Blazer in Floral with Fluro Trim (was £45.00 now £33.50, sizes 18-28).

We were also treated to a cocktail at Searceys Champagne Bar and a fabulous meal at The Meat Co. I genuinely think that both provided some of the best customer service I've ever experienced, not to mention delicious drinks and scrumptious food! We were well and truly spoilt and treated extremely well.

I must admit with Westfield (either site) being about an hour away from me, it's not likely to be a service I'll be using in the near future (pending moving, jobs and whatever else that brings me closer to shopping central), but I can see that it'd be of use to people who work or live nearby and I hope that it's something that's expanded.

Image (Below) © Pretty Big Butterflies (me, Bethany of Arched Eyebrow, Hollie of Pretty Big Butterflies, Lauren of Pocket Rocket Fashion and Callie of From the Corners of the Curve) | Last but not least, it's always a pleasure to spend time with lovely blogging babes like this lovely lot. Thank you Westfield for a fantastic day!

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Review: Boohoo Plus Range #2

June 1, 2014, 6:05 am

≫ Next: Love EVERY Body #7

≪ Previous: Event: Westfield CollectPlus

You might remember that I was invited to the Boohoo Plus Launch event back in March and was very kindly gifted two items by the Boohoo team. I thought I'd review the items for you, as I know it's always beneficial to know how an item fits and feels 'in the flesh' so to speak. Unfortunately I've been delayed in posting this and some sizes are no longer available.

I was really impressed by the way that the items were packaged; they came in a Boohoo branded box and wrapped in pink tissue paper (my favourite colour). I love the idea of the Instagram postcard they included which reminded me of the Instagram frame at the launch! There was also a copy of the look book, which I have seen previously.

The first item I chose was the Sophie Floral Boxy Jacket, which is £20.00 and comes in sizes 16-24. I first saw this jacket at the launch and fell in love with the print as soon as I saw it. I opted for a size 22 which would be my normal size in a blazer, cardigan or top; this size was a good fit. I love the black trim around the jacket which gives it a smarter appearance. I'm really tempted to get the matching Ruth Floral Illusion Panel Skirt (£14.00, sizes 16-24)!

When I was contacted by the Boohoo team and offered a second gift, I chose the Ruby Lace Skater Dress which is £24.00 and comes in sizes 16-24 in cream or black. You can never have too many black dresses, right? Again I went for my usual dress size, which is a 22, although in this case I think I should've sized up to a 24 as it's a snug fit. The length is just above knee length on me (as you can see) and I'm 5'7". I'd probably feel more comfortable if it were a little longer; it's not too short but as it's quite floaty I was a bit concerned about exposing myself! I love the little lace cap sleeves and the dress is fully lined so it wasn't at all itchy as lace can sometimes be.

Having reviewed a few items now I think I can say with confidence that I really do love Boohoo's plus size range. It's on trend and great value, there's nothing not to like about it really. The only thing I would say is that I hope that they expand there size range in the future as I know there are many lovely ladies above a size 24 that would jump at their range! Keep your fingers crossed ladies.

If you're looking for more reviews of the Boohoo plus size range, Google 'Boohoo plus review' or something similar and you'll come across a variety of other blogger reviews (or if you're reading this and you've written one, let me know as I'd be more than happy to link to it).

Now if you'll excuse me I'm off to try to convince myself that I don't need the Rikki Floral Wrap Front Jumpsuit (£28.00, sizes 16-24)...

All images © Big Fat Betty

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Love EVERY Body #7

June 1, 2014, 10:00 am

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≪ Previous: Review: Boohoo Plus Range #2

Hi folks. The seventh assignment for Love EVERY Body focuses on our legs and feet: 'What's going on in your lower limbs? Do you love your thighs, or wish they were different? Do you have knobbly knees, muscled calves, tattooed or scarred shins? How do you feel about your feet? Are they dainty and as soft as a baby's, or like a cave troll's? (That'll be me with the latter!) Do you have full use of your legs? What great things have you been able to do, where have your legs taken you?'

My opinion on my legs is neither here nor there really. I have squishy thighs and muscly calves, I think, and pretty much always have done. The skin on my legs is very pale, more-so than the rest of my body (probably because they don't see much sunlight), and freckly. It's sometimes dry, but I'm pretty lazy and don't moisturise (anywhere).

My feet...I hate. I mean I don't like feet in general, but I particularly dislike mine. Okay they could probably be a lot worse and I doubt anyone would notice their faults as much as I do, but I'm still reluctant to get them out in sandals until I have had a decent foot pampering sesh; they spend most of the year in socks and not really being looked after.

I am thankful to have full use of my legs and feet, even if I don't utilise them as much as I should. Now that my work routine is due to change (I work evenings at the moment so it's tricky to arrange activities) I would really like to get back into dancing; I loved to do Zumba before I left home for uni and I also used to tap dance when I was younger.

That's all I can think of, really. Perhaps I'll add a photo later!

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